We know that being out of work can have a troubling impact on families. The stress, worry and pressure often impact a person’s ability to be the spouse or parent they want to be. Communication might break down. Quarrels might increase. Family members might feel neglected, scared or withdrawn.

In these kinds of situations, I have always counseled people to focus on those who are the most important in their lives and what matters most. Yes, being out of a job might have you in a crisis, but isn’t your family your most precious possession? So what can we do to strengthen our families in good times or in times of trouble?

•  Write a family mission statement-identify what kind of family you want to be, what qualities define your family, what kinds of feeling do you want in your home, how do you want to build relationships? Check out the FranklinCovey Family Mission Statement Builder to help you create yours.
• Hold weekly family meetings-gather your family once a week to talk about issues, problems or good things in your family. Refer to your mission statement to see how you are doing.
• Remember the emotional bank account-similar to a bank account, you can make deposits or withdrawals from each of your family relationships. Make a conscious effort to make meaningful deposits in your relationships. When you make a withdrawal, apologize and correct the mistake.

I am confident as you do these things, you will find your relationships strengthened in your family. You will take control of your life and your family’s life rather than being tossed away by the storms of problems or crises that come your way. Will you try it? See what results you get. What else have you found that helps strengthen your family? I would love to hear from you.

For more ideas on strengthening families you may interested in reading The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families

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